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As we are all about to greet 2012, the year of the so-called ‘end of the world’, I am preparing for THE END of this world. Are YOU? If yes, how are you preparing yourself for THE END? If not, it is not too late… we still have a chance to forgive, to forget (the Purposeful Practice of last week – click here), to repent, to LOVE each other and to start anew, for

everything and everyone who is toxic, machiavellian,
manipulative and/or destructive will be destroyed and replaced.

But let’s wake up and be real: there is not much time left. It is time!
IT IS happening! THE END has started. It is here, right now… and we have the chance to be a part of this beautiful shift. Let’s be ready! I say: “Let’s lend our light for this show for it to be bright and beautiful”.

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**AMIS FRANCOPHONES… La version française de tout site internet et blog peut s’obtenir facilement: allez sous http://translate.google.fr/#, puis tapez ”http://blog.purposefullove.com” (NOTE: la traduction n’est pas d’un français très gracieux et/ou correct, mais elle donne une idée du contexte). 
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Before I get carried away into the juicyness of this practice… dear friends, this is the last week of the year : THE END of 2011. This means THE END of another 52-week marathon of love practices. BRAVO to those of you who have been faithful to these practices and genuinely and consciously applied them into their daily life. I hope that you enjoyed them, had FUN with them – and, most importantly, benefitted from their magical effect!
It is THE END. I will share my heart and light with you all slightly differently in 2012 – more to be revealed in a next message. I don’t know yet what this new journey will look like – I let myself be guided. For now…

Imagine a place where people are back to LOVE, to give and receive (trade)…
a place where money is no longer source of conflict, jealousy or competition…
a place where we are all equal, connected, alert, excited about life, joyful, loving… ALIVE!

As we celebrate THE END of 2011, it is time to anticipate THE END of this world – and to prepare and be excited for the new Year, the new World. It’s been predicted…  THE END has started!

THE END is happening!
That we choose to be arrogant, pretend otherwise
  and continue our life of stress,  misery and suffering…
OR
that we choose to open our heart to dance, grow and
evolve with this -positive- change is up to each one of us!

My choice is made: as I honor the many changes that occured in my life this past year and each END  (end of my marriage, end of my life in Canada, end of my career path as a ‘coach’, end of the Purposeful Practices), I celebrate and dance with the many new beginnings that have taken place (new relationship with my family, new way of sharing my calling through the new business venture I started, new LOVE, new home… overall, a new ME). ALL has been replaced by something more beautiful!

What is ending ends for a reason – always.
And it is always replaced by something more beautiful.

TRUST. BE EXCITED.

Today, my focus is to nurture MY world as I continue to feed it with LOVE, kindness and respect. I will continue to be patient with myself and, when I “trip’n fall” (and I have… and I will again!!) I will be gentle and forgiving… and start again.

It is THE END. And with THE END always comes a new start.
I believe that those who choose to destroy (themselves or others) will be destroyed. Nature will call for Justice:

• Those who don’t take care of themselves (smoke, overeat or drink, drugs -that includes medication!-, etc.) will die.
• Those who put energy in destroying others (stealing, lying, manipulating, killing, etc.) will die.
• Those who lack of integrity (say one thing, do another) will die.
• Those who try to control and manipulate (politic, religion and other organized groups of this type) will die.
• Those who have no respect for Mother Nature (litter, waste sources of energy -electricity, water, etc.-, use disposable everything instead of recycling, polute, abuse or mistreat animals, etc) will die.
• … and the list goes on.

Gosh! We NEED a change! God has given us many signs that we need to stop our arrogance and come back to LOVE. We have not listened. We have continued our little life as if all was normal. Tired, stressed, angry, confused, afraid, with feelings and actions of revenge, running after ‘more’… yet seeking peace. Ha! Imagine just for a second to be an eye in the Universe and watch these crazy human and their madness – sigh.

My choice is made: I am ready for THE END. My desire is to be fully conscious, fully alive and ready to dance with the shift that is coming. CHANGE IS GOOD! Remember… God is smart: He removes what is toxic – and then always replace by something better. We need a New World.
What will you choose? Who will you be? How will you live your life today, tomorrow?
Just for a second, my friend, imagine that all that I just shared was correct – will you LIVE or DIE?

So, the last Purposeful Practice for this year is an invitation to us all to WAKE UP and return to LOVE, for it is THE END of our suffering.
As I always say: all starts in our own heart.

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to prepare for ‘The End.’ I will:   

1. Prepare ‘my’ (new) world
   Remove everything that is toxic, machiavellian and/or destructive, everything that is not LOVE (people, activities, food, information, gossip, etc) from your life.
2. Honor the ‘end’ and dance with the ‘new’
   What is ending ends for a reason – always. And it is always replaced by something more beautiful. Celebrate the endings in your life and be excited for what is to come.
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to embrace and prepare for “The End.”
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to embrace and prepare for ’The End.”
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

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Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow was hosted in
support of the practice we were playing with.
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 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

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Have FUN with this last Purposeful Practice!
Stéphanie            

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It is Christmas in just a few days. This is a very special time of the year where it is about LOVE, Peace, Hope and Forgiveness. And so I will ask: are YOU living in LOVE, in PEACE?
Let’s not be arrogant and ignorant:

There is no Peace and no Hope when we live with anger,
resentment and/or desire for payback and revenge in our heart.

Are YOU willing to forGIVE? — (give LOVE)
Are YOU willing to forGET? — (receive LOVE)
Are YOU willing to be FREE? — (be LOVE)

Are YOU going to choose to be  a living example of the
young man we are about to celebrate the birth of - Jesus?

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**AMIS FRANCOPHONES… La version française de tout site internet et blog peut s’obtenir facilement: allez sous http://translate.google.fr/#, puis tapez ”http://blog.purposefullove.com” (NOTE: la traduction n’est pas d’un français très gracieux et/ou correct, mais elle donne une idée du contexte). 
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Each child is born with the same LIGHT, the same right to LOVE, the same power to LOVE.
Each child has the same power to bring more peace to our world.
Each child… this means YOU and ME. Yes,  you and I are one of these precious children:

Like Jesus, we have one mission, one responsibility:
LOVE and spread the message of LOVE.
BE LOVE.

Christmas… the celebration of the birth of a special little boy. And if we want to be just like him… how about we die first, so that we can be born again?  Here is the ‘love practice’ that I had shared with you last year at this time: “DIE… So That You Can Be Born Again!”

This week, our invitation is to be Jesus-like, not to worship him, but to be like him!
Truly, Jesus would puke to hear us preach LOVE as he is watching us walk in fear and anger, creating wars!

This week AND ALL YEAR ROUND – let’s be an expression of LOVE.
In every moment, let LOVE move us. Let LOVE be the engine for each one of our moves, for each one of our decisions. Let’s use LOVE as our only ‘weapon’ to defend from the attacks of those who have chosen anger and violence.  Let LOVE be our mission towards our loved ones, our neighbours, our ex, our future spouse or future ex, whatever…  for

we are all human beings suffering from the same ‘dis-ease’ :
the desire to be seen, accepted, heard and the need to belong.

Have FUN with this practice… and do everything in your Power to make this Christmas last all year round.

I wish you a joy filled Holiday Season.
I love you.
Merry Christmas!

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’ForGIVE… ForGET… Be FREE (=be LOVE)!’ . I will:   

1. ForGIVE those who have hurt me
   This means GIVE them what we are all about: LOVE.
2. ForGET the meanness and the hurt – come back to NOW, to LOVE
   This means GET real, GET alive NOW. The past is gone, dead. NOW is LOVE. Get HERE.
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to ”ForGIVE… ForGET… Be FREE (be LOVE)!”
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ’ForGIVE… ForGET… BE FREE (= be LOVE)!”
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

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Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!         

.www.purposefullove.com            

When we are committed to LOVE, it doesn’t mean that we are perfect, don’t make mistakes or won’t have our own tribulations. There is one reality that we must keep in mind: we are only responsible for OUR acts and choices! We cannot change how others choose to act and respond. And sometimes witnessing the meanness and the suffering of those we LOVE (because we don’t ‘choose’ to love this one or that one – we LOVE simply!) is the greatest pain.
This is my tribulation today.

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**AMIS FRANCOPHONES… La version française de tout site internet et blog peut s’obtenir facilement: allez sous http://translate.google.fr/#, puis tapez ”http://blog.purposefullove.com” (NOTE: la traduction n’est pas d’un français très gracieux et/ou correct, mais elle donne une idée du contexte). 
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And in the midst of serious attacks from a loved one,  my heart shouted: “Enough is enough!”. There is a difference between ‘fighting back’ and defending oneself.

Today, I must defend myself and call for justice. The plaintiff has not responded to LOVE. He has chosen FEAR (anger, revenge). He has chosen to create his own Hell and is, literally, going down in flames as he throws new attacks and manipulations over and over again. Truly, one cannot possibly be happy and well to live in this energy. And I say: “Because others are miserable (their own choices and decisions), let’s not let them drag us in their hell!”
I was sharing this thought on Facebook the other day: “I will not let anyone or anything turn my light off, nor dim it the least bit”. And today, I surrender to this new experience: I must honor and respect myself. I will Go for Nothing Less than Respect – I will defend myself.
Friends, let’s remember that

Those who suffer, who have problems with the core
of their being, their choices, their LIFE in general…
those are the ones who will try to make others’ life miserable.

When we are happy, we want happiness for those around us!

So I simply won’t let the devil shake my cage! And as I was looking up on the internet for something that would relate to this saying, I found a text that touched my heart. Now, you all know that I am not religious… and that I do have a fabulous connection with and TRUST in the Source (God, the Universe, Allah, Buddha… however you want to call ‘it’). Here it goes (I cut the ‘religious’ part, because I promote freedom, not a set of man-made rules):
(…) DON’T LET THE DEVIL KEEP BEATING YOU UP!!!!!
Some of you need to wake up!!! Don’t you see what the enemy (…) is doing in your life?
If we can trust God * *LOVE* * (…), why can’t we trust Him to work out our troubles here on earth in this life?
Anything that disturbs your peace, whether it be an emotional trauma, whether it be stress, whether it be sickness, whether it be spiritual, whether it be financial, whatever the problem–it did NOT come from God! * *LOVE* * 
God * *LOVE* * will never pull you down, and on the other hand, Satan (*FEAR, ANGER, REVENGE*) will never, ever lift you up.
People, the weapons of our warfare are not carnal! That means that the fight that is before us is not a fleshly battle that we can fight! It is all a spiritual battle that each and everyone of us live every day, and we must recognize what is of the devil (*FEAR*), and what is of God (*LOVE*)

… and you’ll see that I left the word ‘Satan’ in this text, simply because we must wake up and see that each one of us is Satan too when FEAR takes over!!!

“Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about
like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.”    1 Peter 5:8

Truly, my friends, check in your heart: we ALL have a side that is light (LOVE, kindness, softness = God) and a side that is dark (FEAR – that then comes out as anger and leads to desire for revenge = Satan). Only in organized religions we point the finger and blame others to not be ‘God’ enough (while they choose the path of fear). For those who really have woken up and opened their eyes, they SEE: because one ’preaches’ LOVE doesn’t mean they live it. I mean… how many Priests have committed sexual crimes with young children?… how many Pastors have had an affair, abandoned their families, committed fraud and are stuck in anger themselves? 

To the degree we are suppressed to be the full expression of who we are,
we will go for dark -’Satan’’s side- (affairs, sexual assaults, corruption, etc).

This is called being HUMAN. And those too, we must LOVE. They need our LOVE: they are trapped and limited by the set of rules other human beings have given them (religion). Let’s LOVE them – and release the desire for freedom for them… only they can choose!

So for our ‘love practice’ this week, the invitation is that we pay attention to the energy of the devil in our life… to the Satan in each one of US. Let’s acknowledge ’it’ (it is there!!!) … and overwhelm ‘it’ with LOVE (meaning choose to live and respond with LOVE at all times), the very essence that is in our heart. From there, let’s go for nothing less than RESPECT back at us.
The practice that I wrote in October last year says it all and invites each one of us in a world of Respect and Love: “Demand Others to Honor Who You Are!”

Have FUN with this practice! Grow with it…
Feel your freedom to be who you are because you have chosen LOVE!

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Go for Nothing Less than Respect!’ . I will:   

1. Be aware of the Satan that lives in my own self
   Let’s be real: we are no Angels! We are HUMAN… and when FEAR takes over LOVE, we become like Satan. Simply.
2. Set boundaries – with LOVE
   This is not about cutting others from your life completely (this would be fear!)… it is about not allowing others to drag you into their hell. Whatever their pain, their choices… they are theirs. Our own and ONLY responsibility is to LOVE – this means honor and respect ourselves first… and demand that others do the same!
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to ”Go for Nothing Less than Respect!”
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ’Allow Nothing Less than Respect!!’.
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

.    
WANT TO RECEIVE THE WEEKLY PURPOSEFUL PRACTICES?
Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!         

.www.purposefullove.com            

We’ve heard it, we ‘know’ it: “LETTING GO” is important for our well-being. I say: “Easier said than done!”.
Last weekend, I cried my guts out. It was so deep that my whole body was hurting! I allowed all to come out freely as I was expressing and offering my pain and sadness to God. As hurtful as it was, it was powerful and healing too. I slept like a baby afterward (thank God I didn’t know what was coming next… and this is the reason why there is such delay in posting this week’s practice – my apologies).

Life offers rough rides at times.
Let’s not forget the beauty and preciousness of THIS moment.

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**AMIS FRANCOPHONES… La version française de tout site internet et blog peut s’obtenir facilement: allez sous http://translate.google.fr/#, puis tapez ”http://blog.purposefullove.com” (NOTE: la traduction n’est pas d’un français très gracieux et/ou correct, mais elle donne une idée du contexte). 
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CLICK HERE to listen to any of the 15-min RadioTalkshows
in support of our weekly ’love practices’.

So a series of unenlightened events happened this week. They reinforced my committment to LOVE and to go for TRUTH. I simply did not have energy to dedicate to others but myself. Yup… selfish I chose (and was ok with) to be this week! Yes, so much happened this week that I needed to put self-care on the top of my priority list.
Strangely enough, all events were intimately related to my crying of last weekend about the sadness and pain from the ’stuckness’ of a situation. It’s like I felt a bomb was going to explode —– and it did!  This past Monday, I received a registered letter from Canada for a………. lawsuit!   Yes, it is about LOVE - you know by now that everything in my life is about LOVE. Only this time, it is in its unlightened form of pain, shame and revenge:  all emotions that pushed the plaintif to seek for some kind of control in the illusionary world of…  ’money’ – go figure!!!

It’s been an empowering journey for me to step into my light and say “NO MORE!”.
I am all abouth truth and justice (though my choice is to live truth and justice without lawyers and judges!): I surrender to the experience and the reason why this is happening. I am blessed and fortunate to have real LOVE in my heart – not the type of LOVE that one ‘talks’ or ‘pretends’ (that one is quickly gone when things are tough..). NOTHING and NO ONE will turn my light off… nor dim it the least bit. I am in LOVE with who I am, my mission on this earth (to LOVE) and have now opened my heart that I am to make a ‘passage’ in a Court. So be it. Sad, unenlightened… and not my choice. I surrender to the experience and embrace it with an open heart. My moto:

Stay in LOVE and live in THIS moment, for LOVE is here (Heaven). 
Don’t fight with violence and anger – speak the truth and LOVE  deeper
those who are so in pain and in shame that they are trying to drag you in their Hell

This shall be done. 

And so, in the midst of this journey to call for justice, the inspiration for this week’s practice came to me as I was driving to my parents’ for lunch. I had a ‘a-ha moment’: I realised that I was missing ’it’ – I was missing THE moment, THIS moment, too often. The shame, the pain, the regret, the disgust, the anger, the sadness expressed in my big cry last weekend was all the ’rechewing’ of something that happened (= past) and  the disappointment about how things were turning (not from my energy or doings = not mine) —- ALL was from something that happened in the past (being hours or years… ) or something that was not belonging to me. Later on, with the unfolding of events, it is the heartbreaking vision and disgust from the projection of myself in court with that man (future) that took me away from THIS moment.

DUH!

Before reaching my parents’ house that day, I stopped at a special little place in my village, a place where I go when I need to be replenished with feminine energy. While I am not religious -at all!-, I have admiration for Mother Marie. She represents kindness, love, feminity and simplicity to me. All attributes that I desire to nurture in my own character, express and live daily as a way of life.
I was there standing in front of her and asking that she shows me the way when a warm ray of sunshine wrapped up my whole body (it had been raining all morning). I smiled. I got it:

I had allowed something outside of me to steal my light. 

My pain was about something that I lost in the past, something that an other is doing and something that had not yet happened – nothing real right now, nothing to do with my light right here, right now.
While it is essential that we acknowledge our emotions, express and release them regularly and fully, the truth is that life happens right here, right now. It is RICH and BEAUTIFUL, filled with BLESSINGS and LOVE. What makes the difference is where we choose to be in THIS moment: in the past (what happened), in someone else’s pain (not our responsibility), in the future (something that has not happened) or NOW (what is).

The past is GONE
The future is not real
THIS moment is LOVE

It is then that I recommitted to be connected with NOW, live and Savour THIS Moment – right here, right now!

And so, there is our ‘love practice’ for this week: BE IN THE MOMENT… enjoy THIS moment… LIVE IT fully… for it will never come back again for a second chance.
Savour THIS moment.

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Savour THIS Moment!’ . I will -AT ALL TIMES-:   

1. Be real, feel my emotions and allow them all to be expressed and come to the light for healing (cleansing)
   It is important to acknowledge our pain, our fears, our doubts, our limitations… and release it all. Then move to point #2:
2. Stop… and come back to NOW
   NOW is peaceful. NOW is LOVE. NOW is real. Reconnect with NOW – with LOVE. Savour the realness and richness of THIS moment.
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to go ”Savour THIS Moment!”
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ’Savour THIS Moment!!’.
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

.    
WANT TO RECEIVE THE WEEKLY PURPOSEFUL PRACTICES?
Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!         

.www.purposefullove.com            

Head over heels, from a research on the internet, was a phrase suggesting helplessness or being too far gone. It was originally heels over head and was meant to suggest what happens when you perform a somersault. If you picture that, it makes much more sense: when your heels are over your head, you are completely upside down and definitely less able to do anything.  
Head over heels, heels over head… how about HEART over head ??

It truly takes commitment to remain on the path to LOVE.
Fear is always just around the corner, waiting to grab and distract us…
Let’s be bigger than that, stay in our light… and let our HEART guide us 
- not our head!
**I recommend to watch the movie “The Celestine Prophecy” – this phenomena is well depicted!

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We are most familiar with this expression ‘head over heels’ when talking about LOVE, meaning that one fell madly ‘in LOVE’ (in lust, to be exact    ) with an other.
Well, my interpretation (and experience) of this is that when we are in our ‘head‘, we want things from a place of fear. Fear to be alone… so we choose ’a’ partner – whoever is ‘available’ and crossing our path; fear to not be good enough or not have enough… so we say yes to a job that is not even remotely what we love; etc.

Fear, fear, fear…
The head controls, manipulates and keeps us in a world of limitations.
It is itself controlled by our society, religion, etc.

As for the word ‘heels‘… not much to say other than I wish we could spell it HEALS. But there it is… so let’s at least enjoy the ride and ‘kick up our heels’!

With time and with each experience that enriches us with a lesson, we eventually come back to our senses, to our center… to our truth (not everyone… for we must be willing to grow, meaning dancing with our pains and embracing our uglyness). We are over the hill now… and connected to our ‘heart‘ again.

And you got it… this is the invitation for this week: to choose Heart over Head in every moment.

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing togo  ’From Head over Heels to Heart over Head!’ . I will:   

1. Commit to bring LOVE to each situation, each minute of the day
   It truly takes commitment to remain on the path to LOVE. Fear is always just around the corner, waiting to grab and distract us… Be bigger than that! Stay in your light… and let your HEART guide you – not your head!
2. Shower with LOVE those who are struggling
   It is easy to LOVE those who love back, those who are cute and nice. This is not LOVE.
   Make it your practice within this practice to LOVE those who are sad, in pain, ill… or mean to you. This type of LOVE is profoundly healing (for all parties involved).
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to go ”From Head over Heels to Heart over Head!”
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to go ’From Head over Heels to Heart over Head!!’.
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

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 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

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In the many years and hundreds and hundreds of friends and clients I’ve reached through my ‘LOVE Coaching’ practice, I have shared over and over the many benefits of the ‘LOVE Pill’. It is the most powerful -and NATURAL!!!- pill on earth…

WARNING: there are MANY faaaabulous side effects!!!

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Do you have/want Optimum Health?
I do.
This week, I am inviting you to dance with the possibility that our body speaks to us daily with one divine goal: to lead us to the very source (our emotional wounds) of our ‘dis-ease’ (physical pains).
- What if there was no such thing as an illness?
- What if we could sooth and heal each wound, each injury, each disorder… just by taking one ‘MAGIC PILL’?
- What if we could be our very own doctor?

This is my belief.
**NOTE: I am happy to recommend two books that have become my Bible when it comes to health:
  1. In English… “You Can Heal Your Life”, Louise Hay
  2. In French… (reference to come)

In my life today, there is no room for pills. This is a choice.
It has not always been like that: I was taking pills daily to ‘fix’ a problem at some point in my life. I was 6 at that time. I had no better knowledge or wisdom other than following what I had seen around me until that day: when we are sick, we go see a doctor, he/she gives us pills and we will be better. This was my parents’ model too. Bless their heart – they too were doing what their parents showed them… and so did the grand-parents, etc…
I also recognize that, at 6, I would not have had much power to say to my mom or the doctor “I know what is going on for me – I know what I need to do to fix the recurrent bladder infection… and it is to take ‘the LOVE Pill’“. Yah right… even today, some people look at me with a weird look when I invite them to take the road of LOVE (look and heal our emotions to reconnect with our health) versus the road of FEAR (take pills to numb, and hide behind the conviction that we are sick and have something to fix — aoutch!).

Brothers, sisters, it is when I was responding to a friend’s post on Facebook that this week’s ‘Love Practice’ came to life. And so I decided to share my 10 secrets for a strong health (without this brilliant state of health – as much physical, as emotional and spiritual, I would not be here today, standing, smiling and continuing to inspire others!).

There is actualy only ONE secret: 
1. I take the ‘LOVE Pill’ and I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE…

… however, many don’t know what this means in concrete, so here, I give 9 ways of taking the ‘LOVE Pill’:
 
2. I know what feels good for and in my body and mind – so that’s what I feed them!
3. I play, dance and laugh as often as I can!
4. I do the things that I LOVE (work, hobbies, projects)!
5. I help others around me whenever I can — and sometimes it is just saying hello with a big SMILE!
6. I meditate on my heart’s desires — and follow them!
7. I pray for guidance — and commit daily to follow the answers I receive!
8. I LOVE those who judge, criticize, condemn and/or attack me — this is the spiciest ‘LOVE Pill’, but a powerful one, let me tell you!
9. I value and dedicate some time to rest (walk in nature, meditation, quality time with friends or my lover, listen to music, dance, etc.); regular sleeping pattern (have a nap when I need to); etc.
Last, but not least…
10. I make LOVE with my partner often, for the merging of our souls and the sweet ‘LOVE dance’ of our bodies is soothing for the soul, healing and replenishing = all good for OPTIMUM HEALTH!!

LOVE is powerful!

This week, I invite you to be your own doctor and let your heart do the diagnose of your body aches and pains.

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Chose the Right Pill for My Health!’ . I will:   

1. Open to the possibility that my body wants to tell me something
   Most of us have learned that ’a stranger’ (a doctor) will tell us what is going on with our being. And we all know that they are trained -and paid for!!- to give us pills……….. shhhhut… that would be very bad if we, human beings, were to become aware of this gigantesque manipulation from our Governments!
2. Choose to reconnect with my truth, my power… my BODY – and listen to its messages
   It is a new way of life – you can ask for support. Reach out to people who have already chosen to live this healthful way… this freely and happily.
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to ”Choose the Right Pill for Their Health!”
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ‘Choose the Right Pill for Their Health!!’.
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

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WANT TO RECEIVE THE WEEKLY PURPOSEFUL PRACTICES?
Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!         

.www.purposefullove.com            

The ‘love practice’ of this week is about leaving the past where it belongs: in the past!
It is important that we know when it is time to close a door… so that we can dedicate our time and energy to walk through the doors that are open, have just opened – or are opening. When we are sitting in the pathway between two (or more) open doors, there is a draft. SUCCESS does not -and cannot- happen as long as we keep ‘empty’ doors (where there is no peace, no results, no fulfillment for our heart and soul) open – be it in relationships, in business or with our health.
Either we DO something —- or we DON’T. Success does not -and cannot- happen when we keep ‘peaking’ through different doors without ever fully walk through and engage (commitment).

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I wrote this practice last week as I was sitting on the plane that was taking me back home to Switzerland. I had just spent 12 days in Canada to close the door of 15-years… a business, a marriage and, yes, most of my adult life. All is now behind me. The ‘big move’ is done.

It was almost 1 year ago that I was receiving an email from my husband requesting a divorce. I was in Switzerland visiting my family for Christmas at that time. Never I would have thought that I would move back to Switzerland (there is something to be said about “Never say ‘Never’“!
Making the decision to move back to Switzerland after 15 years living the North American life was not a small decision. Since I am blessed with the privilege of having dual citizenship, I gave myself a year to ‘test drive’ a possible new life in my homeland. Life is very much different over here in this tiny country: the culture, the language, people’s habits and ambitions, pace of life, etc. Having spent most of my adult life in North America, I chose to give myself a chance to experience this drastic change of life. 

Losing my husband and the beautiful life and dreams we had together as a couple was a big change (and cha-lle-nge!) on its own. I had many ‘new things’ to adjust to.  I thought – “Why not? I have to start all over, from scratch, alone… why not doing it where I can benefit from the support and love of my family?”
So I chose to open my heart to come back to Switzerland.
I gave myself one year to experiment this new life, meaning living in Switzerland while keeping the Canadian door open. Now, keeping this one door open was a conscious choice – not something I didn’t want to deal with. I simply honored the fact and faced the reality that I could possibly not be at ease back in Europe. By leaving the door open in Canada, I was keeping the choice to go back should my heart call me back there. However, one important factor in this process was to set a deadline to make a decision to choose either one of these two doors. Having options is great… AND:

I knew that by keeping two doors (or more) open, where I just ‘peak through’ and not
engage fully would not bring me the results my heart desires:
Peace, Success in LOVE, Great Health and Financial Flow.

It’s been a hectic journey and a rough year, to say the least. And a blessed one: from deep emotional healing to grieving over the loss of ‘my man’, to the adjustment to the ‘Swiss life’, to the responsibility of rebuilding financially as I was left with less than nothing, to the opening of my heart to a new partner again, to the start a new business venture… Today, I can say: my husband’s choice to abandon our marriage was a gift in disguise.

After I received the email request for a divorce, I stayed an extra month  (January) with my parents before flying back to Calgary early February to move out of the ‘home’ that I had with my husband – his house. While during our marriage I was constantly invited and reminded to consider what is ‘mine’ is ‘yours’, things sure changed after the reception of the shocking email! I went from ‘having it all’ to ‘losing it all’ — even some of what was mine previous to the marriage!  

What I can say is that I am grateful for my commitment to live with an open heart, otherwise this past year would have driven me to the ground! Practicing LOVE daily (the steps that I share weekly through these ’Purposeful Practices’), heart wide open, I embraced these changes and danced with the many threats, lies, manipulations and blessings that came my way. God certainly helped me make the decision process (Canada or Switzerland) easy and clear by showing me signs that I was on the right path: for one, I was welcomed in my own ‘home’ by a stranger handing me separation papers. “WELCOME HOME” I thought. Later on, I found out that the house had been entirely rekeyed. I was there, standing at the door of ‘my home’ after a 20-hr trip across the ocean… and not allowed to get in.

Reality was there: the beautiful, loving man that I had married was gone.
This confirmation helped a lot in my decision process, for my heart needed it to let him go and move on. I was blessed to have experienced a powerful LOVE for 3 years with my husband – and I want it again: a man who is madly in LOVE with me and treats me like a Queen. Nothing less. Nothing more. This King, lacking in integrity with his dreams for his life, had died… and the Queen’s heart is still alive and yearning for the Magic and Power of LOVE. I knew back then that this type of LOVE would be there again for me to experience, but I had to deal with the reality of the moment: the guy who was now standing in front of me ended up sending me to a hotel for that night – and how generous of him… he paid for it.
I managed to make other arrangements for the next 10 days I was going to be in town to move out of my own home and put my belongings in storage.

The toughest part of this journey has been that the man I loved so deeply kept pointing the finger (and still does today) at how “I” paniqued and “I” got angry (yelling, screaming —- yes, guys, it WAS truly awful and so scary to lose the man I loved so deeply!!) when he made his decision to change ‘our’ life. When I was standing at the door of ‘his house’ and got served with the separation papers, it was obvious that it was his turn to express his fears and his pain from losing the amazing LOVE that we had: his behavior was now shaping into mean actions and intentions. And it was only the beginning… which I didn’t know back then 
All along, my heart was hoping for a peaceful separation, with honor and respect. It was obviously not possible for him (still is not) to come back to LOVE. Nevertheless, I chose to be true to myself. My practice was to remain in LOVE. Despite this harsh ”WELCOME HOME”, I promised myself to, each day that I would be in his house packing my stuff, shower him with LOVE, take him in my arms and continue to express what was real in my heart: my LOVE for him. As hurt, sad and disappointed, I was happy that he made a decision to finally honor his true self and, in this process, free me from the new life (his old life) that he chose to return to. It was not me, nor for me… never had been – and I had been clear about it since the day we met.

Here are the gifts that my heart cherishes from having met that man:
– I know one reality: LOVE is beautiful and healing.
– I’ve learned two key factors to Happiness: remaining true to myself – and remaining in LOVE despite the attacks and mean actions.
– I got one proof about myself: I love to ‘talk’ about LOVE… and I know how and do LOVE purely and deeply (sometimes with the disagreements of those who love me and witness this sad ’saga’).

Today… 10 months have gone by: it was time to reorganize the doors of my life and choose one for all.
All of ‘this’ is behind me. I talk to my pain everyday to acknowledge it and heal it. Each day it transforms into more power…
LOVE is powerful!

So, this week’s practice is inspired by the FREEDOM that I have experienced as from closing the Canadian door. Sorting through the boxes that I had left in storage, packing the ‘essentials’ that I wanted to keep (books, CD’s and a few personal belongings) and preparing boxes for donation was a powerful cleansing and purifying process.
I consciously chose to close the door that I had consciously chosen to leave open for a one-year period.
It is time for me to walk through the Swiss door(s) that have opened for me.

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Close a Door, so that I can Walk thru Those that Are OPEN!’ . I will:   

1. Give myself a chance to do things differently (= test drive)
   Is there anything you would like to or have the opportunity to experience? Is it feasible in your life and is this something you can do without hurting anyone?… then GO FOR IT! Choose a new door… explore… be honest with yourself and open/close doors as your heart guides you – CONSCIOUSLY.
2. Choose a timeframe to make a decision (choose ONE door)
   … and I will do it CONSCIOULY, with grace and in gratitude for the experience
   It is important that you give yourself a timeframe as to when you will close the ‘old’ door… or go back to it 100%. No matter what you choose, do it 100% once you have made your decision.
   In my situation, I have loved and lived fully – and want to continue to live this way, heart wide open to LOVE and the pain that comes with it. I chose Switzerland, where ‘God’ showed me signs that things would be good here.
   Pay attention to what is presented to you… don’t watch, but SEE… don’t listen, but HEAR… We are being guided!
3. Invite, inspire and encourage others to ”Close a Door, so that They can Walk thru Those that Are OPEN!”:
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ‘Close a Door, so that They Can Walk thru Those that Are OPEN!!’.
   Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’      

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

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WANT TO RECEIVE THE WEEKLY PURPOSEFUL PRACTICES?
Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!         

.www.purposefullove.com            

Sometimes when life gets to much to take or handle, we must stop and listen to our heart and/or body. What are YOUR heart, YOUR body saying to YOU? Follow its guidance!
Today, Friday, 11.11.11… after a spicy yet heartfelt discussion with the new man who joined me on my journey, I realized that, after this intense trip back to Canada to close the chapter of my North American life, I had NOTHING left to give anymore – no juice, no spark… I was done and needed some rest!!! My head of course wanted it to be ‘perfect’ and go on as if I was my usual self.
But you know what? I am not my usual self right now! I’ve lost much weight, look like I’ve been hit by a truck, feel exhausted in every part of my body and just want to cuddle and cry softly to allow the mourning of everything I just let go of. So tonight, in the protective arms of my man, nestled against his (big) heart, I surrendered and enjoyed a much desserved moment of peace and LOVE. It is when I heard my own heart loud and clear: “Skip one and rest” (my body has been telling me all along to slow down, rest and go back to healthful eating patterns — it is time!)

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**AMIS FRANCOPHONES… La version française de tout site internet et blog peut s’obtenir facilement: allez sous http://translate.google.fr/#, puis tapez ”http://blog.purposefullove.com” (NOTE: la traduction n’est pas d’un français très gracieux et/ou correct, mais elle donne une idée du contexte). 
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So, dear friends, I am going to play full on with this divine message I received from my heart… and will skip ‘it’ (writing a new practice that is) and will go back to bed. I invite you to join me in this resting and recharging energy… I am quite certain that I am not the only one out there pushing it too much. Let’s take care of ourselves!!

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Skip ‘it’ when I need to!’ . I will:   

1. Skip whatever is not absolutely vital to do
   No feeling guitly about that!… just enjoying the new energy that comes from honoring your heart and body’s needs.
2. Rest and Recharge
   SLEEPING allows good recharging energy for the body… PLAYING does the trick for our spirit 
3. Inspire and encourage others to ”Skip ‘it’ when they need to!”:
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ‘Skip ‘it’ when they need to!’, to let go of the old so that they can welcome new energy, new things! Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’     

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

.    
WANT TO RECEIVE THE WEEKLY PURPOSEFUL PRACTICES?
Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!         

.www.purposefullove.com            

Stuff doesn’t make us happy, nor defines who we are.
In fact, the more ’stuff’ we have, the more complications, maintenance and, therefore, worries we have! True or true? … I mean, I don’t have a car, so there is no maintenance to do, to plan or to worry about. I don’t have a home, so there is no gardening, no upkeeping to take care of.  

Think of it: what is it that stresses you on a regular basis?
Isn’t it often related to material things… or the pursuit of ‘more stuff’?  

The invitation this week is to simplify our life.

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**AMIS FRANCOPHONES… La version française de tout site internet et blog peut s’obtenir facilement: allez sous http://translate.google.fr/#, puis tapez ”http://blog.purposefullove.com” (NOTE: la traduction n’est pas d’un français très gracieux et/ou correct, mais elle donne une idée du contexte). 
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In the ‘love practice’ # 34 a few weeks ago ( “Return to Simplicity – to LIFE!” ), I was sharing how my whole life became much simpler with my move from Canada back to Switzerland.
This week, I am sorting through boxes I had put in storage here in Calgary at the beginning of the year: all that I want to keep will be shipped to Switzerland in a few days. I tell you what: only my books (I had a rich library of books who inspired me to be the woman that I am today – and I look forward, even though they are in English, to share some of them with my friends in Europe), my music, photo albums and ski gear are coming with me. The rest is going to be donated to either Women in Need or the Mustard Seed, two organisations that I enjoy supporting.

Now, I must say, it is not easy to decide what to keep and what to let go of. My intention was for simplicity… and I think that I did well, for I ended up with 15 boxes to carry the 15 years of my life in Canada. One box per year… and again, it is mainly books, music, photo albums and skis… so it adds up pretty quick.  

It has been a very intense week, as much emotionally as physically. I am exhausted… and yet feel ‘lighter’, freer – ready to invest 100% into my new life back HOME in Switzerland. It is not without fear or sadness that I leave my Canadian life. In fact, today at lunch, I just couldn’t stop tears to roll down my cheeks. The level of fatigue I have reached is almost unbearable… and when I stopped to eat, all came out. And you know what? It is part of the process, of this exciting journey to come. Change IS scary and DOES take a lot of courage and energy! It saddens me that many people stay stuck in a life that they don’t like, don’t even enjoy… They complain as they dream about something else – yet most will never have the courage to take the step.  

I did it. As scary as it was to change my life after 15 years in Canada – my heart acknowledged God’s work to propel me back to Europe. I made a choice to invest 100% of me in the direction that ’He’ has lead me. It has simply been an amazing ride so far, with tons of blessings and gifts along the way – from renewed connections with my family (much healing in the heart for all), divine new opportunities, amazing people, new places… WAOW! Life is RICH!  

My wish for YOU, my friend, is that, this week, you take the courage to reorganize your life! Start now… one step at a time: do some cleaning (remove the old to make room for something new) and arrange your life so that it has room for the life you want!
It WILL be difficult, tiring and challenging!
It WILL shock a few that you stopped doing this or started that! (and yes, they WILL talk! — they do anyway, that you are miserable or happy. SO… you might as well choose the later!)
It WILL be scary!
And you know what? 

YOU DESERVE TO EXPERIENCE THE LIFE THAT YOUR HEART DESIRES!

So, this week I invite you to simplify your life and organize it in a way that will emanate a sweet energy of ‘I’m ready for my life! Bring it on…’. How FUN!  

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Simplify My Life!’ . I will:   

1. Do some cleaning : let go of the material things that I’ve been holding onto for a loooong time and don’t use anymore
   I suggest that you donate all items that are in good condition. The energy of GIVING is powerful… and always invites the energy of RECEIVING. So, be ready to give and receive!
2. Do some cleansing : let go of the emotions that are tied up to my past !
   If we want to make room for a new life, we MUST be willing to let go of what was. If you want a new relationship, release your previous partner(s)! There is no room for a new partner if the old one is still in your bones! Same for a job… a new state of health… BE WILLING TO LET GO of what was!
3. Inspire and encourage others to ”Simplify THEIR Life!”:
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ‘Simplify THEIR Life!’, to let go of the old so that they can welcome new energy, new things! Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’     

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Sometimes, our heart desires to nurture a relationship with ‘dead’ people (who are physically alive but have chosen not to be a part of our life) - simply because we have a deep LOVE for them. Please do yourself a favour: release that person and allow ‘rescuers’ to come get you! In other words:

Let go of the dead (the person who doesn’t want to be in your life)
to make room for life (a new person who will come and steal/heal your heart). 

A powerful image from the movie the Titanic came to me in the middle of a meditation: at the end of the show, the lady and her man are in the water, freezing… and then he dies. As hard as it was to let go of her BIG LOVE, she had to eventually say good bye and let him disappear in the waters… or she would have died too!

There IS a beautiful man/woman who wants to LIVE, play, LOVE and create with you (the ‘rescuer’)!
… Choose LIFE!

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Many people around me have a hard time understanding how I could open my heart so deeply, quickly and gracefully to my new life here in Switzerland after the abrupt loss of the beautiful marriage I had back in Canada.

You see, everyday I meet people who have been disappointed by (romantic) LOVE. I mean… who has not had at least ‘one’ heartbreaking experience??
The sad thing is that many of these men and women choose -some consciously, some unconsciously- to keep their heart closed (be it out of anger, fear or revenge…) and hold on to ‘what happened’. They hold on to the death instead of focussing on what is to experience now: LIFE. So, in the process, they die too. Their physical body is still here, still moving… they can even pretend (they are usually good at it, for it is a great ‘protection’ blanket), but there is no light, no spark, no life.
These men and women suffer tremendously. They carry lots of stress and tension in their body. Their heart is closed… and they wonder why nothing goes smoothly in their life in general.

Just last week, I met a woman who has been alone ever since her husband of 25 years took off with a younger woman… 15 years ago!! I could feel the yearning of her heart to be opened to LOVE again, to be cherished, loved, spiritually and sexually taken to new dimensions… But her resistence and the anger towards her ex-husband is ruining all chances to meet a man who will give her the beautiful gift of romantic LOVE again. She is holding on to the dead husband. He is no longer there… didn’t want to stay there. So, why would she want to hold on to the painful experience of his exit?
Don’t you think that, in the sharing of 25 years of their life they would not have had some amazing and joyful moments?
… So why would she decide to hold on to the painful exit instead of focussing on the good that was during those years together?
You go it: it is a CHOICE. Her choice.

At any moment we can choose:
FREEDOM (love) or SUFFERING (fear/anger/resentment).

On my side, I’ve been reaching out to nurture a friendship with and offer support to my ex husband of 10 months now. After the beautiful and powerful LOVE we had, this desire was just natural for me… but, to my greatest pain and disappointment, he chose silence and distance.
With daily prayers of gratitude for the journey we shared together and for the blessings in my life today, I was led to one of the most divine revelations the other day as I was meditating in a pool of salted water. I was floating around and opening to some healing rituals. It is when a powerful image came to me: I saw myself as the lady in the Titanic at the end when she was holding on to her BIG LOVE. Eye contact, heart deeply connected… until he died.

When this image came to me, I smiled and felt a deep sense of freedom. I got it… it was time. It IS time! Blessings to him… it is time to choose LIFE
I have loved this man deeply and wholeheartedly. I’ve always held him high in my heart – and always will. I honor his choice to not want to remain in the relationship and focus on the other direction he chose. For me, truly, just as in the Titanic… it was the most atroucious thing (and pain!) to have to let go of him. But it hit me that if I was to keep holding his hands (reaching out to him) and there is no response (death), he was going to drag me to the bottom of the ocean with him.

I can recall the exact day and moment when I realized he was dead (checked out of the relationship). It happened in front of my eyes. It first made me go through tremendous waves of fear and anger. I was resisting the reality that I was going to lose him. That thought was simply impossible to bear. It was just not possible in my head to have an end to this delicious, passionate and powerful LOVE we had. But the reality was just that: my man died, right there in front of me.
So, in honor of my light, of my desire for life and of my calling to inspire people to live and LOVE fully, I let him go. And I will always carry him ever oh-so gently in my heart.
Blessings to him… I choose to hold on to LIFE!

Yes, I chose LIFE. I chose LOVE… and this is the secret to my sweet entry in my new life, surrounded by supportive people and blessings.

I stayed in the water for at least ten minutes after this vision came… I took the time to say goodbye. And I let go of him. With a deep pain in my heart, I released him and watched him disappear – just as in the Titanic. At that very moment, as tears were rolling down my cheeks, I felt the arms of a man underneath me. Gentle and strong at the same time…

So here, my friend, I share my personal ‘LOVE journey’ with you always so rawly and truthfully.
What about you?
What is going on in your heart… in your life?
Are YOU holding on to LIFE… or DEATH?

My simple invitation for you this week is that you focus on LIFE. Let go of those who choose a different path. Letting them go DOES NOT mean that you don’t love them anymore… it means that you honor yourself AND their journey, their choices. THIS is LOVE, my friend… Cheers to LOVE!  

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• MAKING THIS PRACTICE A PART OF “YOUR” LIFE:

This week, I am committing to ’Hold on to LIFE… not DEATH!’ . I will:   

1. Be willing to admit who, in my life, I hold on to and is ‘dead’.
   Be honest… It is ok that some people do not want to be in our life. This is the beauty of this particular practice: we let go of those who do not want to be with us to make room for those who do. How beautiful! Divine…
2. Honor myself AND them… I will let them go!
   Remember… it doesn’t mean that you don’t love them anymore. You are simply honoring yourself AND the choice they made to depart from your life.
3. Inspire and encourage others to ”Hold on to LIFE… not DEATH!”:
   This week, commit to help at least ONE person. Invite and inspire them to ‘Hold on to LIFE – not DEATH’, to let go of those who have chosen to not be a part of their life anymore! Reach out to them, offer them the gift of your LOVE and support. Share with them what you have learned from this practice and how it has helped you create magic and amazing results in your life (it will!!!). Open your heart to them, to their fears… Offer them kindness, a listening ear…  Invite them to PLAY and to be a part of our ‘love family’ by joining their heart to the Purposeful Practices that we do weekly and collectively.

If each one of us does our part, this world WILL be a better place! – and it starts with ’ME’     

YOU ARE NOT ALONE:  WE’RE HERE TO SUPPORT YOU!

SOUL READINGS – PRIVATE CONSULTATIONS
Invest ONE HOUR of your time… and know what keeps you from
getting what you want in life – in Health, Finances and LOVE!
Reserve a session for YOU – Ask YOUR questions!
What do you want to know?
Email me to reserve your consultation!        

Weekly RADIO TALKSHOWS
Each week, a 15-min Radio Talkshow is hosted in
support of the practice we are playing with.
–> For all shows (previous/upcoming), click: “Purposeful Love–going Heart Coeur”
         

 NEW! NEW! NEW! — PLAY WITH ME…
… and create more of what you want in YOUR LIFE!
More FUN… more LOVE… (= more health, more financial flow!)
I am looking for “Ambassadrices” (Suisse Romande) to ‘work’ with me !
Heart Open… Email me for further details 

.    
WANT TO RECEIVE THE WEEKLY PURPOSEFUL PRACTICES?
Click here to subscribe to our Newsletter. You will then be part of our circle of friends who committed to this new ‘way of life’ and receive the weekly Purposeful Practice directly in your inbox.           

Have FUN with this Practice!
Stéphanie            

Friend, feel free to leave a comment below, ask a question or share an idea in regards to this practice!